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Friday, November 6, 2026
4:00 - 7:00 pm (Eastern time)
Saturday, November 7, 2026
Starts at 10:30 am (Eastern time)
Of Quincy, passed on October 28, 2026. Born August 1, 1964 to Richard and Mary Jane Kilduff. Predeceased by his wife Laura Grande. Survived by his son, Joseph, his mother Maryjane and 3 brothers, Michael, Paul and wife Michelle, and Terrence. Also mourned by his sisters-in-law, Valerie and wife Anne, and Joelle and husband Jeff, and many others.
He leaves many nieces and nephews and one adopted family, the Romans.
Patrick graduated Brandeis University cum laude with a dual bachelor’s degree in psychology and music. He was IT Manager at the Veterans’ Administration hospitals in West Roxbury and Jamaica Plain, Massachusetts, for many years. He was also Music Director at St. Gabriel’s Parish in Brighton for 28 years prior to their closing.
Visitation will be held at the Bell-O’Dea Funeral Home, 376 Washington St., Brookline, on Friday November 6 from 4-7 PM. Interment Saturday November 7, will meet directly at Mt. Wollaston Cemetery, 20 Sea Street, Quincy 02169, at 10:30 A.M.
Bell-O’Dea Funeral Home
Mt. Wollaston Cemetery
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